Nigerian choreographer Kafayat Shafau popularly known as Kaffy has revealed how her former husband, Joseph Ameh slept with her best friend.
The popular dance instructor made this known during a chat with Chude Jideonwo on his show #WithChude.
“Lemme tell you when I started getting more healing…when I stopped sleeping with my husband. I was celibate with my husband for three years before I got a divorce. There are different red flags that we women in love are so blind to see,” she said.
She also revealed that he wasn’t only sleeping with other women but her best friend.
It would be recalled that in January, the mother of two officially revealed that her marriage to Ameh was over.
“I have always wanted to see the best vision of my ex and even taking the chance of breaking this marriage was also to see that we both grew into what we really really are supposed to be,” she said.
“Marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destinies driving towards a place God wants for them. And mine really didn’t work out that way. And rather than looking at someone as the problem maybe you could be the problem of that person.”
She also revealed that separation isn’t a reason for both parties to become strangers or enemies.
“Separation isn’t the end of life for both parties involved. In fact, if you both are honest about why you have to go apart, you will realize how much better life can be. Some people make it back, some don’t. What is ultimate is the outcome borne out of love!” she captioned the video.
There had been reports in 2021 that the dancer’s marriage to Ameh had crashed.
Kaffy and Ameh got married in 2012. They have two children together.
Nigerian choreographer Kafayat Shafau popularly known as Kaffy has revealed how her former husband, Joseph Ameh slept with her best friend.
The popular dance instructor made this known during a chat with Chude Jideonwo on his show #WithChude.
“Lemme tell you when I started getting more healing…when I stopped sleeping with my husband. I was celibate with my husband for three years before I got a divorce. There are different red flags that we women in love are so blind to see,” she said.
She also revealed that he wasn’t only sleeping with other women but her best friend.
It would be recalled that in January, the mother of two officially revealed that her marriage to Ameh was over.
“I have always wanted to see the best vision of my ex and even taking the chance of breaking this marriage was also to see that we both grew into what we really really are supposed to be,” she said.
“Marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destinies driving towards a place God wants for them. And mine really didn’t work out that way. And rather than looking at someone as the problem maybe you could be the problem of that person.”
She also revealed that separation isn’t a reason for both parties to become strangers or enemies.
“Separation isn’t the end of life for both parties involved. In fact, if you both are honest about why you have to go apart, you will realize how much better life can be. Some people make it back, some don’t. What is ultimate is the outcome borne out of love!” she captioned the video.
There had been reports in 2021 that the dancer’s marriage to Ameh had crashed.
Kaffy and Ameh got married in 2012. They have two children together.
